Therapy Articles & Resources
How to Deal With Shame When You Cannot Stop Feeling Like Something Is Wrong With You
Shame can turn a mistake into a much bigger judgment about who you are. Learn what helps when self-criticism, perfectionism, and fear of judgment make it hard to move on.
Online vs In-Person Therapy in DC: Which Is Right for You?
Online and in-person therapy can both work well, but format affects privacy, attention, continuity and how you engage in treatment. Here is a more useful way to decide what fits your life in Washington, DC.
Sexual Anxiety in Marriage: Why Intimacy Starts Feeling Like Pressure
You can love your spouse and still find yourself avoiding intimacy. Sexual anxiety can make touch, initiation and even bedtime feel loaded. Here is why that happens and what can help.
Why Does My Relationship Feel Like Work? 9 Signs of Relationship Burnout
Sometimes you are not sure you want to leave. You just know you are tired. Learn what relationship burnout can actually feel like, how it differs from falling out of love, and what may help.
Dating Someone With Anxiety: What Helps, What Gets Hard, and Where Your Role Ends
Dating someone with anxiety can leave you wondering when to reassure, when to give space, and when to stop trying to fix it. Here is what can help, what tends to make things harder, and how to know when the relationship needs more support.
Why Do I Feel Sad After Sex? When Intimacy Leaves You Feeling Low, Empty, or Far Away
Feeling sad, empty, anxious, or unexpectedly tearful after sex can be confusing, especially when the experience felt good. Learn why these emotions can surface after intimacy, what postcoital dysphoria means, and when the pattern may be worth exploring more closely.
Why Am I Obsessed With Someone I Barely Know? Limerence, Anxiety, and Attachment
Sometimes the person occupying your mind is someone you barely know. Limerence can involve intense longing, intrusive thoughts, idealization, fantasy, and a powerful need for signs that the other person might reciprocate. Learn why uncertainty can make the fixation stronger.
Why Can’t I Get Anything Done? ADHD, Task Paralysis, Burnout, or Depression?
Sometimes procrastination is not a lack of caring. When your brain feels stuck between knowing what to do and actually starting, ADHD, overwhelm, anxiety, burnout, depression, or executive-function difficulties may be involved.
Why Do I Feel Nervous in My Stomach? When Anxiety Shows Up Physically
Anxiety does not only happen in your thoughts. The brain and digestive system communicate constantly, which is why stress can cause butterflies, nausea, stomach tension, bathroom urgency, and other digestive symptoms.
How to Stop Negative Thoughts Without Fighting With Your Mind All Day
Trying to force negative thoughts away can make them more important. Learn nine evidence-informed ways to reduce rumination, challenge unhelpful thinking and create distance from self-critical thoughts.
Why Do I Take Everything Personally? Rejection Sensitivity, Anxiety, and Self-Worth
Taking things personally is not always about being overly sensitive. Anxiety, rejection sensitivity, self-criticism and old relationship patterns can make ambiguous moments feel like evidence that something is wrong with you.
How to Rebuild Intimacy When You Feel More Like Roommates Than Partners
Relationships can become efficient long before they feel disconnected. Learn how to rebuild emotional and physical intimacy when work, parenting, stress or routine has pushed connection to the edges.